A memorial donation message can be one or two sentences. Say you are thinking of the family, and if you can, share a short memory of the person. You do not need to mention the gift itself, and there is no wrong way to say you care.
Your Words Matter
Families read every message, often more than once. You do not need to say anything perfect. A few sincere words, or a small memory, is more than enough.
Our family reread the messages people left with their gifts for Steve many times. The short ones meant just as much as the long ones. A single memory of him, even one line, felt like a gift of its own.
Sam Farrington, FounderSimple Messages
Thinking of you all and sending love.
We are so sorry. Holding your family close.
Praying for your family and for peace in the days ahead.
Sharing a Memory
I will always remember [Name]'s laugh at our summer barbecues. Holding your family close.
[Name] never met a stranger. I am so grateful I got to know him.
[Name] taught me what it means to show up for people. Thinking of you all.
From a Coworker or Teammate
[Name] made every day at work better. We are so sorry for your loss.
[Name] mentored me when I was new and never made me feel small. I will carry that forward.
[Name] coached my son for years. He was the best kind of coach and the best kind of person.
When You Did Not Know Them Well
I did not know [Name] well, but I know how loved he was. Thinking of you.
Our whole neighborhood is thinking of your family. We are so sorry.
Before You Give
- You can give anonymously. The family will still see your name so they can thank you.
- Covering the fees at checkout means the family receives your full gift.
- A memory shared on the page means as much as the gift.
Common Questions
Do I have to leave a message with my gift?
No. A message is optional, but families treasure them.
Is it okay to mention how they died?
It is best not to. Focus on the person and the family.
How much should I give to a memorial fund?
There is no right amount. Many people give what they would have spent on flowers. Every gift helps.
Can I give without anyone seeing my name?
Yes. Choose to give anonymously. Only the family managing the fund will see your name.