Resources
Words and Help for the Days Ahead
Simple guidance, with examples you can copy, for the things families face after a loss.
How to Set Up a Memorial Fund, Step by Step
A memorial fund gives friends one simple way to help. Here is how to set one up in about five minutes.
In lieu of flowers, gifts may be made to the family’s memorial fund.
In Lieu of Flowers: Wording Examples for an Obituary
Simple, kind ways to tell people you would rather they give to a memorial fund than send flowers.
What to Write on a Memorial Fund Page
A simple structure for the words on your page, with examples you can make your own.
How can we help the family?
Thank you. There’s a fund here: memorialfund.co/elena
Just gave. Sending love.
How to Ask for Donations After a Death
Asking can feel awkward. It does not have to. Most people are grateful to be told how to help.
Your kindness means so much to our family.
Sent ✓How to Thank People Who Gave to a Memorial Fund
Short, heartfelt thank you notes you can send in minutes, even when you are exhausted.
“Thinking of you all and sending love.”
What to Write When You Give to a Memorial Fund
Not sure what to say with your gift? These short messages are warm, simple, and easy to send.